Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Think, please think!!!

Things are not always what you think they are
Or what you think they aren’t
Things just happen
You see, often, or most of the time, or always
We only think of a problem from one dimension
We always do
And we never cease to do it
This is when we neglected some important fact
And this will eventually lead to problem
Such as quarrel

I do not deny this
I admit been like this
We as a human
Our first instinct will tell us all the negative stuff about our problem
We often lost ourselves
Fill ourselves with anger
With jealousy, with greed
With hatred
When we do
We hurt
We scold
We misunderstand
We stand on our own ground
We stand for ourselves
What if things weren’t mean to be like that?
What if one’s intention was not to angered you?
What if that person was not what we thing he/she should be?
Then will you plant a wrong accusation on him/her?
Or would you do it without realizing you’re doing it

Take a couple as an example
The girl told the boy that she’s talking to another guy over the phone
The girl trusted her boyfriend
She won’t hide anything from him
She expect her boyfriend to understand
But you know guys
This is when he gets jealous
His jealousy gets to the head of his senses
He’s angry
The quarrel happen
If the boy would just control his emotion a little
Sit down, relax and think carefully for a while
Appreciate his girlfriend for trusting him
Everything won’t happen

It’s time to start thinking from different dimension
This maybe more difficult than we thought
But as time goes by
We’ll get use to it
In this way we can avoid conflict
We will not wrongly accuse others
We can be emotionally balance

Take another example
A friend
At first you are ok with him/her
But you heard how your friend badmouth about him/her
You started to doubt
Whether she/he is such a person
Slowly
You accept the fake fact that she is a person like that
You fail to notice if the person bad mouthing your friend
Have a personal problem with your friend
What if your friend (that bad mouthed) just doesn’t really like your friend?
You want to be notice
You don’t want to be left out
And so you choose to avoid your friend
You’re actually causing more pain to him/her
You’re wrongly taking his/her’s fact

Think
My friend
Think
Please start to think from different angle of dimension
Things may not be the way it is
If your world are only about yourself
Then sorry
You’re just been selfish
Think for others
Think more
Think for your enemy
Think for friend
Think for everyone

Think before you act
Think…
Think…
If only you will think first
You can avoid a lot
And I mean a lot
Of unnecessary clash

Please think
Especially for those who you love
I hurt those I love many time before
Just because I don’t think first before I do anything
If only I think in her shoes
Then every conflict can be avoided
….
I regret
and I urge everyone
to think
from different dimension
think
for everyone
think
for the one you love

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