Thursday, July 7, 2011

Long Distance Relationship

@@~~ I love this picture~~ Remind me of someone <3


Being in a relationship is hard enough
How about a long distance relationship?
To maintain a long distance relationship is not simple
As time pass by
More and more problems will surface
Trust will become the key to everything now
If there's not enough trust
A relationship might ended up = 0

A relationship happens when two person
(in this case, a male and a female)
who are staying far away from each other
For example east and west Malaysia
Fall in love with each other
Long distance relationship is not a hindrance
For true love comes from the heart
and not from one's appearance
This kind of relationship needs much more trust than an ordinary relationship
Mainly it's because the couple couldn't see each other everyday
This had already cut down couple's mark by 30%

But as I stated above
Distance is not a hindrance
What with the can't-see-you-everyday problem?
What is with the can't-see-you-can't-trust-you?
Of course, going into a relationship requires time
When two individuals started to notice the good in each other
That's when love started to spark
We can't blame one for not putting trust into his/her partner
All human has curiosity
It's just normal not to trust 100%
But this can't be a hindrance either

A long distance relationship is a world full of challenge
Full of curiosity and full of uneasiness
But a long distance relationship is far
And I mean far purer than any kind of relationship
It's a form of true love
It's not easy
But when trust and love are there
Nothing is impossible

I've seen many successful long distance relationship couple myself
And all of them have the same answer
Being with her is everything
I won't suspect her
I decided to trust her
Even if one day this relationship may fail
But I trust her
Am I right friend?
Long distance relationship holds more than this
It's because the both of you can only see each other once in a long time
You will miss your other part everyday
This feeling of missing someone dearly is a common feeling share among
the long distance relationship couples
Because they meet each other once in a while
The couple cherish their partner very much
The feeling of wanting to see him/her
The memory of togetherness that can only be feel once every long while
And the effort both partner share to keep the relationship go
This is the sweetest time a long distance relationship couple feel

Long distance relationship is not impossible
It's just that most people just don't trust this kind of relationship
But let me tell you
Long distance relationship
Will not fail
Instead, the love the shines in this relationship is more powerful than a normal relationship
A little trust
And a little freedom for your partner to do what they want
Can keep the relationship firm
Just don't hold your partner too tight
Give them some space
But at the same time
Limit them from doing certain things
But don't overdo it


A long distance relationship is possible
And I believe in one
And I will continue to believe so
Put in some effort
Entertain your partner
Make him/her laugh
Cheer for him/her
Video call her
Or call her often (beware, don't too often, everyone need their private time, but do call often)
It just requires you to put in some sweat
Work a little harder than a normal couple



In love to
Miss Oink Oink

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